I forgot to mention - I’m in VEGAS! lol. And yes BFF, you can have my FREE dinner. I miss you tumblr-tiers!
What happened? No more LA?….Oh yeah and sorry I missed your call. I got your message though. Makes sense now….No wonder why you were like “IT’S 80 DEGREES ALREADY”…Hahaha. I will call you after work tomorrow. See you in 6 days!!! Well….pretty much 5 days…ASHFDKDLSFHKHHSHHLL <3!!!! Then choas….The good kind of choas. CAN’T WAIT
My name is Claude and I want everyone to read this
I felt the need to write this because I know that I have a lot of followers, and I believe that I can change the way people think. I just need to get people to read this first. You will know what I mean in a minute. It’s simple and it won’t take as long as you think. This will go by really fast. I promise.
From personal experience, I am convinced that most people are confused about what Love is. Wait, don’t stop reading just because you read the L word. I bet you think this is cheezy and stupid already. But I promise, this may be one of the most useful things you will ever learn. So please, keep reading.
So many people think they are in Love with someone. But I think that so many people have the wrong definition of what Being In Love is. So let me explain to you what “Being in Love” is…To understand what being In Love is, you need to understand what “Being in Like” is first.
When you first meet that “someone” and you like them, it is natural for you to wonder what they are like as a person, because you don’t really know much about them yet. So you start to imagine what they might be like. You invent this idea of what you think they are like, in your head. Am I right? You keep inventing this idea of what you think they are like, until you get to know them by spending time with them.
The differece between Being In Like and Being In Love is: When you are in Like, you have grown too attached to your invention of that person. And you don’t allow yourself to accept them as they are, because you are so attached to your invention. That is why people get jealous and or try to change people. Because they want that person to become the invention.
When you are in Love, the invention you have created of this person doesn’t matter anymore. Because you start to replace your invention of them, with facts that you learn by getting to know them. You accept them as they are, and would not change anything about them…..Because changing them would make them someone else.
If you understand, please reblog and or like. Thank you.
Mike Gee and I are gonna go watch it and laugh. I don’t think these girls realize how psychotic and or cheezy most of these dudes are. They’re setting themselves up for potential stalking…..I feel sorry for the girls. But I can’t save them :(
I was watching 40 yr old virgin the other night and I was just asking “where do they host these speed dating events anyway?” cos I never heard of it happening or where… but now i know! haha
Hahaha! Oh my gosh. It was happening in the middle of the lounge while there were bake sales and fundraisers for clubs going on. And my friends were in charge of the African American Club. They had the BEST SEATS! So they were like “You have to sit with us and watch this shit! We’ll just tell everyone that you’re part Black!”….Haha! So I sat down, and ALLLLL the weirdo guys were there. Even the hoarder guy that I tried to save you from. All the girls were normal, but there was only 2 normal dudes. I was like “I can’t watch this! I feel so bad for the girls! They’re going to be stalked!”