Dear world, this is how you build yourself. Exactly. Don’t let anyone else tell you other. Now get to work!
When talking to a person. You should always talk to a person with the intent of learning something new. And mutually, to express something new to them. It is poor to approach someone with the intent of just getting at them.
I believe that talking to someone with the intent of just getting at them is a waste of both their time and your time. And that it is also every generation’s biggest flaw.